Its now Day 5 of the 30 Days of Asexuality Challenge and todays question is for me to Tell the story of the first person you came out to.
Not that easy at all, since I really do NOT remember who the first person was that I said I didn’t identify with being lesbian, bi or straight but gender neutral, I do know that one person I told that to was the person who raped me and he did so because he said I only didn’t know because I’d never had sex and once I had sex I’d know what I was (at least that was his reason for raping me and some other junk), didn’t help matters and it sure didn’t solve that question about my sexuality.
Knowing me though the first person who I would likely have told before all others would have been my grandmother – but since I don’t remember who it was I can only guess that it might well have been her that I had that sort of talk with because I know it wasn’t either of my folks.