Category Archives: Writings

can’t figure out where to post it this is where it gets put until a topic area is found/created

8 Ways to Heal When Love Hurts

Some times our loved ones hurt us. Dads can get physical or disappear from our lives. Moms can betray us with their anger and lack of support. A best friend can shock us by turning their backs on us. A … Continue reading

Posted in Writings | Tagged , | Comments Off on 8 Ways to Heal When Love Hurts

Healing from toxic relationship

Healing from toxic relationships by I. Michael Akbar Created on: January 25, 2008 To heal from a toxic relationship you must first come to understand just how damaging such a relationship can be. Emotional vampirism might be an apt description … Continue reading

Posted in Writings | Tagged , , , | Comments Off on Healing from toxic relationship

The abusers — actors in disguise

First, and foremost, abusers are actors. It makes no difference what gender the abusive personality is, their primary skill is to emulate normal behaviour in order to disguise their own condition. I have spoken to many victims of abuse who … Continue reading

Posted in Writings | Tagged , | Comments Off on The abusers — actors in disguise

How to Build Self-Esteem After a Verbally Abusive Relationship

Moving on after a verbally abusive relationship is challenging because your abuser has convinced you that your character is somehow deficient. Verbal abuse can leave you with enduring psychological wounds; scars that can influence every part of your life and … Continue reading

Posted in Writings | Tagged , , | Comments Off on How to Build Self-Esteem After a Verbally Abusive Relationship

Emotional Rape Syndrome: What is Emotional Rape?

Emotional rape has many similarities to physical rape, particularly date rape. Date rape involves the sexual use of someone’s body without consent. In a like manner, emotional rape is the use of someone’s higher emotions, such as love, without consent. … Continue reading

Posted in Writings | Tagged , , | Comments Off on Emotional Rape Syndrome: What is Emotional Rape?