After a breakup, would you rather be alone or be surrounded by friends?
Personally, I would rather be on my own to get my brain around what happened, having others around actually annoys me since most have empty words to say that are of 0 help at the moment if they are there and in the background that’s one thing but being active and trying to make me feel better doesn’t help matters. Not immediately at least, a week or so later ya it’s helpful just not immediately it isn’t.