This is where I share stories, thoughts, and reflections from my day-to-day — the parts of life that exist beyond just diagnoses or medical labels. Here, you’ll find posts about being ChildFree, navigating spirituality and identity, life with my service dog, and the personal ups and downs that make me who I am.
Whether I’m writing about the quiet moments or the big changes, this space is for all the real, messy, funny, and beautiful parts of life that don’t fit into a box.
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Appetite Was Never a Voice in My Head
Before GLP-1s, before diabetes, my silence was already loud. Lately, the internet has been buzzing about “food noise.” People talk about how GLP-1 medications like Ozempic or Wegovy finally quieted the constant urge to eat, that voice in their head always thinking about food. I’ve read those stories. I’ve listened. I’ve sat with them. And […]
Pride, Plurality, and Power: Living at the Intersections of Queerness and Disability
June is Pride Month — a time of rainbows, celebration, protest, and reflection. For many, it’s a time of joyful visibility. For others, like me, it’s a complex blend of emotions, history, and survival. I live at the intersection of many identities: I’m asexual, aromantic, genderqueer, poly-minded, a kinkster power switch — and I’m disabled. […]
Abilist Views even in the Disability Community
Well, it doesn’t come as any surprise that there are those who live with a disability who are abilist in their thinking and actions, not to mention in the way that they go about putting out material that is aimed at others with the same disability or similar condition. Even the tech they are using […]
YouTube, TikTok, n Twitch
As many might have noticed I haven’t been doing my regular posting of live streams to my YouTube channel nor have I been doing my daily live streams not even once a week like I had started to try to do, and almost never mind the weekly TikToks that I had started to try to […]
Amazon Wish Lists
Well I have had a few people ask if I have a Amazon Wish List since they have seen my Google Play Book Wish List and yes, as I stated in that list I do have an Amazon account and thus do have Wish Lists on those accounts. I can’t really post the lists here […]
Things are Opening Up!
Well I know that we are now in Phase 3 of the reopening or is it 4 (I’ve lost count to tell the truth)? I honestly don’t know and part of me doesn’t really care since it still doesn’t feel like it is actually safe to go out there among larger crowds of people, not […]