Well its Day 1 of the 30 Days of Asexuality Challenge and today’s question that I am to answer is What is your romantic/sexual orientation?
Well its hard to answer this for various reasons since I am married to Norman and he’s not exactly what you would call 100% male since he was born interesexed, and though he looks male he can pass for female under the right circumstances.
I fell in love with Norman for what is between his ears an din his heart not for what is between or not between his legs. I don’t see him as male anymore then being female to me he is who he is and I only use the term “him/he” because that is the gender term that his outwards appearance day to day is.
I can’t say what my romantic or sexual attraction is because I don’t have a romantic attraction to either gender and I don’t have sexual attract or interest in either gender, for all I have dated and been with both neither gender holds an appeal over the other, for me its always been the person that counted over their gender that really mattered to me.